Sunny D. asked:
social wise?
social wise?
It seems like no1 really ever talks to me…
What are tips to be yourself? What is appropriate way for most people to act and not to act? Any tips for high school teens trying to live a good social life?
Yes i do talk to them first. Most of the time.
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Don’t worry about what others think. If you feel like dancing in the middle of the hall at school – do it! Find the group you feel comfortable with being yourself. Once you’re out of school, it doesn’t matter if you were part of the popular group or not.
Get involved. Do your homework. Sleep when you get the chance.
GET OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE
You say that no one talks to you but are you going up and talking to them? You can’t blame people for doing something you don’t do yourself. Just remember people want to have friends in general and people love to talk about themselves. Start up a conversation and be attentive.
I think that if u want a good social life in high school, u need to build a social life outside of school. im a senior as of right now in hs and there are many times when ur friends have other firends to hang out with. try new activties and new clubs. good luck
Be positive whenever possible. Make people feel good about themselves but don’t **** up! (No one likes suck-ups or downers)
Be confident. Carry yourself as though you believe you are smart, interesting, lots of fun, attractive and lovable. People will want to know you and talk to you.
Join a team or club- In addition to learning or honing a skill, the team experience will teach you teamwork and improve your social life.
Be sincere. Don’t pretend to be what you are not. There is no bigger loser than a poser. If you are a geek, then be a cool geek. If you are a bit strange, then be the cool quirky kid. Just trust people to accept you as you are. (Some will reject you but others won’t. This is how you’ll find true friends)
I can’t guarantee you a great social life but if you give these suggestions a try, you are on the right track. Good Luck!
Find out what kind of people you’d like to associate yourself with and try to do it. Joining a sport is a great way to meet people. When i went to my high school i didn’t know anyone i joined the wrestling team made a ton of sports, and also fell in love with a new spot. I now train BJJ. Wrestling also got me in great shape etc….
If you don’t like sports maybe try joining clubs…..
Just be nice sociable, get your schol work done, get into a good college cuz college is where the fun is at =]
Get people’s numbers and stuff do stuff over the wekened with friends
But don’t be too pushy. If people don’t want to hang out with you or something just drop it. **** them lol
stay in martial arts, i honestly have to say that you were a bit different when you were training martial arts